This Is How To Turn Into An Ex-Wife in Seconds

This is How To Turn Into An Ex-Wife in Seconds

If you want to turn into an ex-spouse, read this…

I had gotten divorced, and my ex-husband kept calling me his wife, which really, really annoyed me.

For two years, he would say it, and I would just cringe. I couldn’t stand it. I resented him. I was pissed off, but I never told anyone.

Finally, I told one of my friends.  

“God, I hate when he calls me that,” I said.

“Well, why don’t you say something?” they asked.

I thought about it.  I realized I was afraid. 

Even though we were not married anymore, we still had the kids. I was afraid if I told him, he would leave. He would just disappear, and then what would I do? I would have to be with my kids alone and handle everything myself.  As selfish as that sounds, that was my real thought.  

I know some people do that, but it was an irrational fear that if I told him, something bad would happen.

But one day I gathered up some courage.

“Look, I’m really afraid to tell you this, but something is really bothering me,”  I put my head in my hands and burst into tears. 

“What is it?  You can tell me…….” he said gently.

Between sobs I said, “It really bothers me when you call me your wife. I’m not your wife. We’re divorced.”

“Oh, okay. So I won’t call you that,”  he said matter-of-factly.

And that’s how I became an ex-wife in seconds.

So here’s my question to you. Is there something that really bothers you, and you resent someone, and it pisses you off, but you don’t think you can tell them because you’re afraid? 

Where is something like that in your life, where you’ve lost affinity and you’ve lost connection?  If you don’t like it, you just have to say it and your life will change in a few seconds.

Really the way I did it, he didn’t get mad. I just said, “I don’t know how to tell you this, but it’s something that really bothers me.” And then I said it and it was fine. In the next few seconds, I had such freedom, the affinity was back, and we started getting along. 

Now, when something bothers me, I can just say, “Hey, I really don’t like that,” and it’s okay, and your life can change in a couple of seconds.

So that’s my story about how I turned into an ex-wife in seconds, just by saying what I didn’t think I could say. 

Hope you find your way to saying what you don’t think you can say, because I’m telling you, it’s awesome.

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