Tips For A Confused Victim

Yes, the confused victim was me. It took me 3 tries on the video to get to the bottom of it. Wow!! Getting into dialogue is brutal, but effective.

I won’t give it away but these are my 6 steps:

  • Get into dialogue
  • What are you being right about?
  • Are you willing to not be right?
  • Can you forgive?
  • If not, what are you choosing to suffer over?
  • What can you see now?

What I got to was:

  • Don’t tell me to believe in myself

I’ll do it when I’m gosh darn ready.


  • it’s easier to pick a fight than to GET REAL sometimes when the getting real is painful and sad

That’s all she wrote, folks. It’s in the video.

Working it out “out loud”

Have a great day.

Thanks for listening.

PS If these blogs and videos are making a difference and you think I SHOULD believe in myself, please let me know. I’m having one of those days and it would make a difference for me.

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